If you are in a relationship with a guy that wants to explore things in the bedroom and add an extra person, you may be wanted to understand why he is suggesting this and what his motivation is. We take a look at why guys want threesomes. We also examine why your wife may want a threesome with another man and how you can pursue this fantasy and initiate a threesome.
Why Do Men Like Threesomes?
For many men, a threesome involving their wife, partner, and another woman is a sexual fantasy that they may have had for some time. It’s not wrong, and it doesn’t mean that they don’t love their wife or girlfriend completely; it is just that they want to add another element to their sex life and explore this fantasy. For many men, it is a threesome involving another woman, while some have the fantasy of watching their wife with another man or even being involved in a three-way with a wife and another man. There are no specific rules. It is all about what floats their boat and what they fantasize about. There is all manner of fantasies and fetishes that are undertaken behind closed doors. This one tends to be more common than others are.
Having a Threesome in a Relationship
For a threesome to work in a relationship there has to be a deep connection and massive trust. If you are going to involve another person in your intimate sex life, you need to make sure that you can handle watching your wide pleasure or being pleasured by another woman. It is critical that this isn’t going to make you paranoid that she is a lesbian or is going to enjoy it more than she enjoys being with you. You also need to be sure that she is going to be wild with jealousy once you actually start touching another woman. Fantasizing about a threesome is one thing. Actually, doing it is another and something that she is entered into by two consenting parties that are open-minded and in complete agreement about the rules.
My Wife Wants a Threesome with Another Man
While often a threesome may involve another woman, some women fantasize about having sex with another man while you watch or having sex with both of you. You may have feelings about this that are confusing. Does it make you gay if you partake, or can you both pleasure your wife without being intimate with each other? You also have to ask how you feel about letting another man have sex with your wife and whether you can handle this. Sexual fantasies are great and can be so much for a couple as long as they both understand the practicalities and emotional aspects of carrying them out. If you want to make her happy and fulfill her fantasy, explore ways that you can do this. Perhaps she fantasizes about a threesome involving another man, but you really want to see her making love to another woman. This is something that you can discuss and possibly explore both possibilities.
How to Have a Three-Way with Your Husband?
Men have sexual fantasies – some they are open about and others maybe they keep to themselves a little more. It really depends on how close you are and how you feel the other one will react. If you have discussed it, seen it in porn movies, know someone else that has done it, or just had a fantasy about it, perhaps you are ready to take the next step and explore it. But what is it exactly that you are looking for?
- Male or female – you need to decide first whether you want to introduce a man or a woman as the third person in your fantasy.
- What do they look like, and do you both have a type? Are they going to be a certain build, hair color, and eye color – how specific do you want to be?
- Local or out of town? Decide what you feel more comfortable with.
- Where will this encounter take place? Do you want them in your home, or would you rather meet on neutral ground?
Once you are both agreed that is something you want to pursue, then you need to agree between yourselves the details. Are you allowed kissing the other person, do you have a rule about no specific sex acts, are there get out clauses where you can stop if you feel uncomfortable. Agree with the terms before you initiate the threesome so that you are both very clear about what you are willing to do and how far you are willing to go.
We Are Initiating a Threesome – How to Go about It?
If you have never had a threesome before then, you are probably wondering where to get started. You need to discuss the type of person that you want to sleep with – blonde, dark hair, male, female, tall, short, big boobs, nice legs. Once you have agreed on this, then you can set about trying to find this person. This is not so easy unless you get online. Online dating sites are great for making your sexual fantasies become a reality. There are so many different people looking for couples just like you to act out their fantasies. Get online and be open about the fact that you are looking for a threesome with a woman or a man and describe what you are seeking. You should then have a list of options so that you can discover more about them and then initiate contact. Get to know them first before you arrange to meet up.
You can have a lot of fun in the bedroom, realizing your sexual fantasies, and it is a lot easier to find what you are looking for thanks to technology and online dating. Just make sure you know what you want, and then it will be much easier to find it. Have some fun exploring your partner and your own sexuality and be comfortable with your relationship enough to get what you want out of these situations.
